Saturday, February 12, 2011

Palliative Care

Joan is doing it tough this morning...two major vomits, extreme tiredness and weakness. Yesterday, for the first time, she told me that she wanted to be finished with all this.

This morning I took her to one of her sewing groups to say goodbye and donate a heap of books.

Last night we signed up with the Silver Chain Palliative Care Unit. Read about it on the Family Blog.


  1. Dearest Joan,

    as sad as I am to read you are parting with your sewing books, fabric & sewing machines it's nice to know you at least have control of their destiny. The cancer can't rob of these choices.

    I want to thank you Joan for being interested in what I do, it has always been an honour to see your face in the crowd and without your reassuring & knowing guidance I wouldn't be free-motion-embroidering my way into the future!

    Love & thoughts now & always - Jody Pearl x

  2. So sorry Joan is having a rough time, and I am sorry Kev you are having to watch this happen to the love of your it a sad situation for everyone. I do hope palliative care people will be kind, gentle, understanding and loving. Everything dear Joan deserves now. I was pleased to read she was able to go to her sewing group to share her things with her friends, just a beautiful thing to do.....always in my heart and prayers...;-)Hugs

  3. Thank you for keeping us informed. I am lifting you all up in prayer right now- for peace and comfort. A scripture to share with Joan: "Nevertheless I am continually with thee: thou hast holden me by my right hand. Thou shalt guide me with thy counsel, and afterward receive me to glory. Whom have I in heaven but thee? and there is none upon earth that I desire beside thee. My flesh and my heart faileth: but God is the strength of my heart, and my portion for ever."~Psalm 73:23

  4. Dear Joan and Kev,

    I am so sorry to hear that things are so tough now.
    I hope that 'Silver Chain' is helpful to Joan.

    Keeping you both in my thoughts

    Carole xxx

  5. My love, prayers and tears are with you - and some very special memories from many, many years. Joan will always be in my heart. Love to you both.